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Do you think I'm an introvert or extrovert? maybe I'm an ambivert - introverted at home, extroverted in school. School is a place created for extroverts anyway; society forces us to be extroverted...otherwise we can't survive. I duno, but I'm finding myself becoming quieter in school...I think. Orientation was crazy and I remember not being able to identify with myself hah coz I just didn't recognise that person. Maybe I was just trying to fit into a mask I created, hoping that people will know me by that ideal image? I'm not sure either. Or maybe I'm really extroverted? haha. In sec 4 I went for this tuition and someone told me he thinks I'm an introvert. lol. never mind. Introversion (I)
Anyway, I was just surfing around and chanced upon a few websites:
http://www.knowyourtype.com/introversion.html
Key words: inner world • ideas • reflection • depth
People who prefer introversion are energized and excited when they are involved with the ideas, images, memories, and reactions that are a part of their inner world. Introverts often prefer solitary activities or spending time with one or two others with whom they feel an affinity, and they often have a calming effect on those around them.Introverts take time to reflect on ideas that explain the outer world. With their orientation to the inner world, introverts truly like the idea of something, often better than the something itself, and ideas are almost solid things for them.
People who prefer introversion may:
http://www.knowyourtype.com/extraversion.html
Extraversion (E)
Key words:outer world • people • action • breadth
People who prefer extraversion are energized by active involvement in events, and they like to be immersed in a breadth of activities. They are most excited when they are around people, and they often have an energized effect on those around them. Extraverts like to move into action and to make things happen--extraverts usually feel very at home in the world.With their orientation to the outer world, extraverts often find their understanding of a problem becomes clearer if they can talk out loud about it and hear what others have to say.People who prefer extraversion may:
http://cfge.wm.edu/documents/Introversion.html
Some Characteristics of Introverts:
· Are territorial - desire private space and time· Are happy to be alone - they can be lonely in a crowd· Become drained around large groups of people; dislike attending parties· Need time alone to recharge· Prefer to work on own rather than do group work· Act cautiously in meeting people· Are reserved, quiet and deliberate· Do not enjoy being the center of attention· Do not share private thoughts with just anyone· Form a few deep attachments· Think carefully before speaking (practice in my head before I speak)· See reflection as very important· Concentrate well and deeply· Become absorbed in thoughts and ideas· Limit their interests but explore deeply· Communicate best one-on-one· Get agitated and irritated without enough time alone or undisturbed· Select activities carefully and thoughtfully
Some Characteristics of Extraverts
· Are social - they need other people· Demonstrate high energy and noise· Communicate with excitement and enthusiasm with almost anyone in the vicinity· Draw energy from people; love parties· Are lonely and restless when not with people· Establish multiple fluid relationships· Engage in lots of activities and have many interest areas· Have many best friends and talk to them for long periods of time· Are interested in external events not internal ones· Prefer face-to-face verbal communication rather than written communication· Share personal information easily· Respond quickly
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they were talking on the phone one night about the image that they wanted others to see... Sometimes, they feel that they will be better off hiding their thoughts and emotions so that they seem to have a less transparent character, so that others will never come to fully understand them...and others will not look at them simply and take them for granted or something like that. Maybe they enjoy that distance on the surface...but deep down, for them, it is against nature to lean towards introversion because it is just not themselves...so what's the point?
Anyway, take a look at this entry from http://albakzapadana.blogspot.com/:
That is my scream against you all actors in the world…Stop playing!